
Frustration
Is it a tide thing I wonder? Could it be the deficit? I don’t know the reason, but I do know that this week has been full of a lot of frustration. Normally I am a pretty mellow person. That might come as a surprise given my online passion with competent information, but laid back I am.
This week, for whatever reason, I have been faced with constant irritations, stupidity of other people, physical set backs, and lifestyle WTF’s? It really is one of those weeks where you want to shake the s**t out of someone.
note: this is all in good humor and lightness
Things I could do without right now
- Becoming vegan or vegetarian for internet profit. Really? Your information is so weak you have to appeal to that type of advertising strategy.
- Hiding behind nobility when you are just scared of being rejected. It’s that whole “reject them before they reject me” way of thinking.
- Pandora coming to the conclusion that I like The Shins. 4 different stations now have made repeated attempts and I am not going to concede. I don’t like the shins. I don’t care how much Natalie Portman protested their awesomeness in her cracked out state. I don’t like The Shins and I am okay with that.
- North Carolina Tax Laws
- “Bad Foods”
- Thinking that blogging about your own training makes it okay that you don’t train anyone else. You sit in your house all day, it is what it is. Just own it. You are an internet marketer. See you at the next Frank Kern event.
- Yogurt containers are too small. That isn’t a meal. It’s a bite. One spoonful and the whole damn thing is gone and then I am sad thinking “That’s it? That is all I get, screw you Jamie Lee Curtis and your tiny Activia Cups.”
- Referring to Jamie Lee Curtis as the “Activia Lady.” WTF, did no one see Trading Places, one of the best comedies of all time? You at least saw Arnold getting aroused in True Lies eh? Shame on you.
- Unfollowing me on Twitter cause I didn’t follow you back, and then giving me a lecture about it. Why should I follow you? Did you talk to me? Here is a big big hint: Talk to me. Say hello. I have never not followed someone back who said hello. Otherwise I am not following just anyone because I don’t care to see your 50 posts per hour about a product your are selling that I don’t want.
- Judging “Fit Pros” for all the bs you hate and then kissing up to them for more website hits. It’s noticed. Tsk tsk. For the record there is only a few people I think lack nobility in the industry and would never touch with a ten foot pole. Other than that I choose to do my thing and let people do theirs. When you make ranting blogs or articles over and over again or make yourself vocal on “hidden” forums, you can’t exactly network with them later now that you are trying to get somewhere. Shady.
- Selfishness. It is simple and happens to everyone, but does it really take much to say thank you when someone goes out of their way? A friend of mine just told me this ridiculous story. In short, you know who you are, and they sucked for not saying thanks. That being said, work on a “Demand Respect” system and cut down on these chances of treatment. IE: Kick them to the curb, cut the dead weight. I know I just did.
- The fact that I check Facebook a few times a day now. Dammit. Oh, but I did officially kill my Myspace profile that I haven’t used in a year and I think my chance for STD’s went down by 20% from that single act alone.
- My DVR deciding it wants to cut of almost an entire hour of So You Think You Can Dance.
- Thinking age defines anything. I will admit being previously guilty of this, and perhaps the ironic thing is it takes age to know that it doesn’t define anything. Maybe I am getting to old to keep up with my own hypocrisy?
- How protein pancakes will just change their mind about being fluffy, just because.
- Movies with creepy kids. Seriosuly you are ruining children for me.
- Message board politics. Yeah my lack of presence is for a reason and likely will become less and less till an alternative is found.
- Passive aggressiveness. You got beef cow? Just say it. Moo.
- My dog having food allergies, really?
- Stealing my stuff. Come on you can get more creative than that and according to most I have the writing skills of a 2nd grader anyway. In the future though could you do me a favor and write “The above work was stolen and not credited in anyway from Leigh Peele.” Kthxbye
- Oversimplifying things. Sometimes you can simplify so much that you take it too far in the other direction. Yes, the answer is most of the time simple, but that doesn’t mean optimizing can’t be discussed, individuality doesn’t exist, or that there aren’t multiple methods of solving a problem. You end up becoming narrow minded in the other direction, and that just creates a different kind of dogma.
Whew, now I feel better.
That Training Life
Next weekend you will have the official layout of my diet and training program. Why not this week? I am still debating what type of strategy I want to use given that my schedule is undergoing a change.
I am taking up a full time position out of town for the next 3-4 months. This changes a lot for me, but I can’t pass it up. This doesn’t really change much online, but it will be a different daily scheduled and 3 hour commutes multiple times a week.
When life throws you a curve ball, you learn to get better at hitting them out of the park.
Yeah, that was cheesy.
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Song of the Post:
Imogen Heap is putting out her new record soon “Eclipse.” She is not only talented, but perhaps one of the most precious seeming creatures on the face of this earth. I definitely have a talent crush on her. If not familiar with her work I recommend starting with “Frou Frou – Details” and “Imogen Heap – Speak For Yourself.”
The song I am choosing is off of “Speak For Yourself.” Usually “Hide and Seek” is the perfect gateway drug, but I am going a different course today with “The Walk.” It is in my top 20 of all time hot songs. It may not seem that way at first because it lacks that obvious “Let’s Get It On” directness. However, there is no denying that these are some of the sexiest lyrics on the face of this earth.
My particular favorite moment starts at 1:35. “You’re as close as it gets without touching me. Oh now don’t make it harder, than it already is. I feel a weakness coming on.” If you have ever stood so close to someone, but not kissed them when all the fire and intensity was there to do so, nothing like it.
Imogen Heap – The Walk











HAHA I feel the EXACT same way about yogurt and Myspace.
Speaking of “bad foods.” First off I never saw that hilarious post you wrote over at FLzine (outraged one). It passed it on to a few friends. Anyway, what are you thoughts on this over at Nia Shanks blog?
http://www.thefatsolutions.com/blog/The+Healthiest+Grains+for+a+Lean+Body/
There are things I REALLY disagree with, but you pointed to her blog previously. I tried to be nice but was bashed for alerting her to a different field of information and she was pretty quick to dismiss any other view herself on the research. Where do you stand?
I really didn’t like these statements –
—-Feel free to include grains liberally if you are trying to gain muscle. If you still want to eat grains but are trying to lose fat, only include them in the meal you eat after completing a weight training session.—-
—-Also, if you are trying to maximize your fat loss results, only consume grain products after a strength training workout or eliminate them all together for a period of time. This will ensure that your body uses the carbohydrates to repair your body and replenish your glycogen stores instead of storing them as fat.—-
Also if you are becoming vegan and cut out grains, what the hell do you eat LOL.
I think it is a really bad post and her attitude about it is worst. I stopped following on twitter/facebook because it. Guess you have to be more careful about who you promote.
Oh Man! I have noticed the Vegan/Veg thing too Leigh! It pissed me off being Vegitarian. I agree with your stances on it and my reason are for ethical reason. It’s bullshit what people will do to make a buck.
I disagree with you about one thing Leigh. Not liking The Shins is a big no-no on my list.
Jenn: Yeah, that is wrong information on that blog. Just another blog that puts out generic information. She seems nice and all, but how hard is it to take that extra step when the info is out there a lot now. I remember a few years ago it wasn’t out there much and could understand. Now? It doesn’t take much to find it if you are the expert you are claiming to be.
When you are promoting a book of someone and don’t follow their work, what is the point? I hope this doesn’t reflect bad on Leigh. She can’t control what other people write and I don’t she would have promoted her blog had she seen stuff written in it like that.
Dude, I hear you. Sometimes you just need to veeeeeennnnt. I was SUCH a crab to my husband this morning (whoops)–an hour spent with my journal would have been a better solution, but sometimes it is hard to know you are all out of sorts until you….act out. I have spent the afternoon vegging and am almost ready to work out now. Almost. Thanks a lot, deficit! I’m so hungry and tired. So this relaxation time was the ticket.
I hate individually sized yogurts! They are way too small; plus, they create trash.
If it makes you feel any better, my cat has allergies and has this weird shedding-hair-from-her-butt thing that makes her look just….wrong.
re: yogurt containers- Greek yogurt should be available in 5 lb pails.
re: Jamie Lee Curtis- The last thing I’m thinking of when I see her is yogurt. Even Greek yogurt. Even Greek yogurt being available in 5 lb pails.
re: age defining anything- I just turned 43 and will proudly state I act more like a 20 year old than most 20 year olds. People don’t like it and say I’m immature? Screw ‘em. Nah nah nah nah nah nah….
Quality venting Leigh, hope you feel better now
Jenn-There you go and ruin my perfectly good rant closure by trying to demand another one.
I finally got through to the blog post, it only took me 20+ times because of my internet card today. Even then I didn’t get a full load so I am going to have to go off of what you posted mostly for discussion.
First off, I think James was brass as usual, but that’s James.
As to if I agree or don’t….
I will write on this subject soon to clairfy my statements on the issue and provide some solid info to point to rather than some comment ranting. I think you can tell from my past talks and my rant above though where I stand.
Matt – Hopefully my Shins stance doesn’t discredit the rest of my work.
Anna – The cat butt image was disturbing, yet fluffy.
Chris – I think we speak the same language.
The only way I’ll eat yogurt now is with a scoop of protein powder and frozen until it’s a perfectly yummy frozen treat. It definitely doubles in volume, too.
you forgot rollerskating baby videos.
Leigh, no love for the Shins???
Me no understand. Their third album is definitely a step up, maybe throw a few more benefits of the doubt at them?
“Becoming vegan or vegetarian for internet profit. Really? Your information is so weak you have to appeal to that type of advertising strategy.”
Not digging the Turbulence Training, Leigh? Or perhaps the veiled reference had other targets
“Thinking that blogging about your own training makes it okay that you don’t train anyone else. You sit in your house all day, it is what it is. Just own it. You are an internet marketer. See you at the next Frank Kern event.”
I’m tempted to take a jab at you for making this comment while your own training is in the state that it is. But then again, you were spot on with the internet marketer comment, and you seem like such a fantastic person that it would just be wrong of me to bash you, since it contributes nothing and would merely waste a few seconds of your life because I couldn’t resist being a petulant child. Plus you get MAJOR bonus points for references to A Bronx Tale and No Retreat No Surrender in previous blog posts.
Carrie – That is good.
Mike – That is a horrifying thought.
Mish – Not you, not on my own blog? Are you working for Pandora you fox bastard.
Jack -
1- I wasn’t aware that TT turned vegan. So not sure what that means.
2-I train people, don’t be confused. I train myself as well and even in my worst condition I am still in a better condition than most. So I am not sure how you are judging my training state. A genuine injury got me down and I blogged about it. This is my “log” nothing more.
Big difference from some guy who talks on twitter all day and does jack squat in the outside word.
Hit a nerve? Ha
Jack: I can speak from personal experience, Leigh walks the walk. She also met up with me free of charge just to talk for a few minutes while I was in NC. It was pretty awesome. So I can back her up.
Although I will say the first thing that popped into my mind was Turbulence Training too, so now I am curious as to who Leigh was talking about.
Yeah, eh sorry if that came off rude. I just don’t want to be lumped into that. Perfect I may not be, but apathetic and shady I am not.
Sorry if it seemed snappy, wasn’t meant as a jab, just wanted to make my stance clear. I can be a hypocrite, but not THAT much of one.
As to the veghead thing, I was talking about a woman that contacted me for a JV offer from a blogging forum I am a member of. They outlined their marketing plan and strategy to me, and while it was I guess a good one, just seemed weird and shady to me to list “Proclaim vegan/vegetarian diet to appeal to a broader base.”
Just support it, why do you have to turn it? I don’t know.
Leigh-
I think if you tried the “bananna” recipe I sent you , you would be one happy camper on your low calories.
I just ate mine for the day and added 10 grams of goat choc whey and 5 grams of cocoa, then topped it off with 10 grams OF pb2
For anyone who wants to know what im talking about
http://www.choosingraw.com/this-post-will-change-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-23349
Disclaimer…. LOL
(PLEASE NOTE I DO NOT EAT RAW, BUT THIS RECIPE ROCKS!!!! DONT KNOCK IT UNTIL YOU TRY IT..YOU WONT BELIEVE HOW GOOD IT IS. YOU MUST DO THE WHOLE 5 MInutes though)
BTW- I unloaded my myspace about 3 months ago, and i feel soooooo much better… :)
giggles
Thanks Leigh looking forward to reading it.
Leigh I have a crush on you. Oh an anyone that refers to Jamie Lee Curtis as the activa lady should be shot.
http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2008/06/22/article-1028289-0056758E00000258-55_468×700.jpg
http://content7.flixster.com/photo/95/66/17/9566177_gal.jpg
Jenn,
I decided to visit Ms. Peele’s site to look at some of her excellent nutritional advice that Nia promotes. I am disturbed to find that you have put words into Nia’s mouth. If you would have read her article, you would have read that Nia states you should feel free to eat more grains if you become vegan/vegetarian. Further, in no way did she bash anyone on her site in response to their comments. Rather, what I saw was people bashing her rather harshly. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, including her. I think it’s pathetic that you attack Nia without reading all her information and make inaccurate accusations. I have applied both her nutritional and workout advice and have seen amazing results.
Leigh, the rollerskating baby viral videos are Evian bottled water commercials so they tie not only into this blog post, but the xenoestrogen/plastic container post as well! Two rants for the price of one!
I’ve also cut my internet time. This is the only blog I read anymore, and all the forums I used to check religiously, related to fitness and other interests (photography, art, music, custom autos, etc.) have been eliminated. I’m at the point that when I have extra time, there’s other things I’d rather do… like vegetate completely, watch TV/movies… or *gasp* actually participate in other interests instead of just talking about them.
Beautiful Leigh,
I took a huge sigh with you as I finished reading your rant paragraph! There was some seriously f*&^ed up shit in there. Being a proud vegetarian of 15+ years, the first point almost struck me through the heart. Also, your poor puppy with allergies. I just found out this week my little girl has a heart condition =(
Anyway, I thought your rant was awesome!
Awesome rant Leigh
Everyone needs to vent sometimes… my biggest beef, rude people on the roads and people who have pets and don’t look after them.
Sad about the pup, do you know the extent of his allergies yet? I had a boxer who was allergic to dust mites and house flies…. poor fella was an indoor dog too gets damn cold in Tasmania in the winter
I’m most upset about your tivo and you missing you SYTYCD.
Listen to “In the Dark” and “Disappear” by Harland; also, “Crawl” by 8 mm — very sexy but kinda dark
Dude, I would not want to meet you in a dark alley in this state. You are one seriously pissed off Leigh. I’m sorry you’re having a crappy week. Crappy weeks suck. So do allergies for the pooch–poor guy!
My brain is hazy from another 4 hr drive with screaming kiddos (well, not screaming all the time…they were much more pleasant and agreeable on today’s drive and BONUS-no puking!), so some of that other stuff went right over my head, but let’s just say that sucky people suck!
I always seem to be skipping through The Shins on my Pandora stations too. They somehow weasel their way into most of my playlists. It’s a conspiracy.
Leigh, you are so cool, I even love reading your rants!
Sorry to hear about the pup. I’ve got two sick pets right now and am doing what I can to keep them healthy or at least pain-free.
I missed half of SYTYCD a couple weeks ago, due to techincal difficulties! So frustrating! The clips during the results show just don’t make up for missing the actual routines. Those folks are amazing.
Oh and Chris — I would TOTALLY buy a 5-gallon tub of Greek Yogurt! I’m sure my family would look at me funny though! (Funnier than usual, that is!)
I think you need to chill out, have a carb, and listen to “chutes too narrow” ;)
can’t wait to see your diet/training program